Describe the differences between "aimer," "aimer bien," and "adorer" in both the contexts of objects and people. A ranking on how strong each of the phrases would be extremely beneficial.

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If I want to say that I really like an object, I will use "adorer":

J'adore mon ordinateur, il est très puissant !

If I want to simply say that I like an object, I will use "aimer":

J'aime ma nouvelle étagère. Elle est pratique.

If I want to say that I globally like an object, I will just use "bien aimer":

Ce tapis n'est pas si mal. Je l'aime bien.

So for objects, the ranking would be the following for me:

  1. Adorer
  2. Aimer
  3. Bien aimer


"Adorer" and "bien aimer" will work the same in a sentence for people. "Aimer" is trickier, depending on the context and who you are talking about. It can either mean that you simply like someone or that you love that person. So it can be both less or more powerful than "adorer".

If we are talking about a friend of us that I just casually like, I could say:

J'aime Benjamin, c'est quelqu'un de sympa.

Although if I am talking about my girlfriend, I would obviously say:

J'aime ma petite amie.

Now, to be really honest, I think if I was referring to a person who is not my girlfriend, I would either go for "adorer" if I really like this person or "bien aimer" if it's a friend with whom I'm not sharing strong links or that I don't admire. But it still may be possible to hear someone just say "aimer" for a person.

The final ranking for me would then be:

  1. Aimer (in the context of love)
  2. Adorer
  3. Aimer (in any other context)
  4. Bien aimer
  • 1
    Pas tout à faire d'accord avec l'exemple de Benjamin... Jamais je ne dirais de quelqu'un que je l'aime parce qu'il est sympa, mais plutôt que je l'aime bien. Dec 15, 2017 at 8:57
  • @MonsieurTruite C'est pourquoi j'ai mentionné après coup que je dirais personnellement "adorer" ou "bien aimer" pour une personne. Mais j'ai déjà entendu des personnes simplement dire "j'aime".
    – Izuka
    Dec 15, 2017 at 8:58
  • Je ne dirais pas directement "je t'aime" à un ami, bien sûr, mais indirectement il me semble qu'une expression comme "ceux qu'on aime" inclus les amis les plus proches, non ?
    – Distic
    Dec 15, 2017 at 17:47
  • Nice copy and pastey from my answer...
    – Cloud
    Sep 20, 2019 at 11:18

'Aimer bien' means you are actually emphasising that you like (not love) something.

So in order:

  1. (Strongest): Adorer
  2. Aimer (can mean love or like)
  3. Aimer bien (like)

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